I often read that vaginal, vs. clitoral orgasms, are a myth according to the scientific establishment (although I bet they have a lot of fun during those experiments ;). As a woman, I know that there is a fundamental difference between the two, the first being an all encompassing experience which, as you say, requires complete surrender vs. a sneeze.

Your advice regarding how to cultivate the attitude, and I believe it is an attitude, requires an appreciation of sexual pleasure that views it as a sacred ritual rather than an aerobic exercise. Your DVD is clear about this distinction and it is very refreshing to hear your voice amongst all of the static.

Again, thank you.

Isabelle